Monthly Archives June 2018

Abolish ICE

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Abolish ICE

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New Poll: Democrats Losing The Millennial Vote!

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New Poll: Democrats Losing The Millennial Vote!

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Lilith fucking christ though.

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Oh oui vey.

Seriously. Memo to the opposite sex especially my crushes and the like 

Look I’m always here for you but I don’t want to hold your hand through another abusive relationship. It really is unfair that some of you will use my attraction as a weapon to argue when I claim that your relationship is abusive I’m biased. I can be a neutral outside even if I DO want you for myself. 

I don’t want to do it. I’m your friend through thick and thin but for fuck sake please don’t do this to me. too many of you are attracted to bad boys and don’t think I am because i’m a feminist and what not but the reality is I’m cunning too about getting money and what I want.

But See the devil in the details is when somebody I’m into gets with an Abuser it’s NOT just YOU He’s abusing...

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The most exhausting part of trying to pass as monogamous

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is hiding all the excess emotion from your partner. I swear to lilith the one thing about me is that when I start to have the feels for somebody I naturally want to gab about them and talk about it and most acutely with my s/o or whoever I’m romantically bonded with the most and that is only going to hurt her feelings so when you’re trying to pass as monogamous you’re suppressing an awful lot of emotion and feelings because You want to talk about it. My First open relationship kind of had a Don’t ask don’t tell rule that I stipulated but At this point I’ve changed and i’m very much do ask do tell because holding that shit in is not good for anyone. I wouldn’t want to put my significant other through having to bottle her attractions to boys from me. I love her.

I think you should be able t...

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One thing Polyamory has taught me is that “healthy relationships” don’t drive a stake into every friendship with the opposite sex in order to isolate you from them. They don’t get on your private messaging accounts and send your friends all kinds of vile nasty messages.

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And that shit passes for “normal” in monogamous relationships. It’s not.

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Girls slut shame other girls.

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I don’t freaking kiss and tell. 

Slut shaming is wrong.

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See I might be polyamorous but I’m a feminist and one of the things I don’t like in particular is how I’m a Pimp if I can get in multiple girls panties but women who do the same with men are thought of as sluts.

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For one thing all slut shaming does is encourage women to be more selective about who they sleep with so it doesn’t benefit me at all and for another it’s not fair.

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One of the things about it is origins and you’ve kinda gotta understand mine.

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I was autistic and had a reputation for ripping up the carpet because I would stim on the damn thing and they thought I wasn’t paying attention and participating even though I was listening and on top of that I got bullied a lot and from my peer groups I’m naturally socialized to expect to be treated poorly and bullied so anything that doesn’t fit with that pattern like kindness is really infectious and causes me to develop a crush very easily. 

I’ve got so many crushes it’s natural for me to question why I have to choose and the answer is mononormativity. 

Culture raises people to want/expect monogamy. I mean it’s all the rage in fiction and movie and television shows...

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People rarely talk about how oppressed polyamory is. We’re all so happy to have many others that we feel privileged and I guess It is an honor and yeah but I’ve never had to deal with this kind of shit before. I love screenshoting post on Social media that I agree with and posting it elsewhere on the web and redistributing comments to a wider community of people but I’ve encountered for instance polyamorous facebook groups and they specifically warn you against doing that kind of shit because People can get fired from their jobs or be denied access to their kids in child custody disputes over being polyamorous.

Never mind that when you tell somebody you’re in a polyamorous relationship they’re often like “OH don’t worry you’ll find the right one someday...

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I’d rather be alone than be treated like shit but by the same measure I’d rather be alone than treat somebody I was interested in like shit.

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I’ve got history liking girls who seem to date abusive fuckwads but I REFUSE to do it.  If being nice is the quickest way into the friend zone Consequences be damned I’m taking friendship over being an asshole.

I swear I’m a martyr for kindness. 

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