Monthly Archives December 2015

INFP Female Experience

DanyaMM 1 year agoINFP here. It’s not that we won’t sacrifice ourselves, it’s that we tend to focus on the needs of individuals over the group (and ‘individuals’ does not always mean ‘us’). We typically place greater value on an individual understanding why they feel the way they do and why a situation is the way it is than on fixing the problem right away. This focus helps the PERSON in the future instead of the PROBLEM in the present. Both focuses can be very helpful while having their own pros and cons.Reply · 7

C Freeman 11 months ago
Like your videos.  I’m an INFP.  It’s interesting to look at videos of INFJs and INFPs side by side.  The INFJ’s eyes “are out”, or “pop out” or are “extraverted” while the INFPs eyes “are in”, “have depth”, “are intraverted”.  Interesting.  I’m having some conflict with an INFJ, so this really helps.

The complex inner world of Fi feeling.  The best way I can describe that is that we have thousands of shades of colors of feelings.  For example “Blue”.  We don’t discriminate, and categorize our feelings into simply 2 or 3 shades of blue.  We have 10 or 20 shades of blue.  And that’s just blue.  Then there are 20 shades of yellow, 20 shades of red…etc, etc.  And we know and can identify each and every one.  We recognize them when we feel them...

ranka91 1 year agoI think that’s the main difference between Fi and Fe, as the INFJ girl said, her (Fe user) values arent linked to her feelings, Fe users dont FEEL those values inside of them, they’re more a constructed idea, something that comes from the outside, from experiences they had (and it can also change with time as they get older and wiser, talk to more people etc.), wether Fi users just KNOW and feel what’s right and what’s wrong, it’s just innate, it doesn’t come from an outside source, like religion or whatever, it’s just something really personal and deep and sacred to them. Show less

Winnie Winkles 1 month ago
Very good video, thank you. Yes as INFJ it is easier to feel and meet the needs of others and much more difficult to contact your own feelings and stick to your own goals. I’ve asked my partner to check in with me how I really feel about things from time to time to help me check that I’ve not fallen into ‘living for others’ again. I definitely realise I need to honour my need for solitude etc more so I can tell how I feel and remember what I am trying to achieve for myself. I think I should be a hermit!
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